I am trying to find out how to substitute
powdered soy milk for regular powdered milk. If any one has any ideas it would be a really great help.
Powdered Soy Milk For Dry Milk Powder
Carrot Spam Spread
6 eggs boiled and chopped
3 medium carrots grated
1 can spam ground (or 1 pound ham)
1 small onion finely chopped
1 small green pepper finely chopped
salt and pepper
Miracle Whip or Mayo(add the amount you like or until spreadable.)
Mix all ingredients together and let set in refrigerator for at least one hour. This makes a lot of sandwiches or works great on crackers. I also have made this using left over roast pork.
My Aunt gave me this recipe years ago. I don’t know where she got it from. Hope you enjoy.
Time And Choices
By Ellen C. Brown from CreatingHours.com
Oftentimes, morning turns too midnight all too rapidly as we frantically attempt to squeeze chauffeuring three children to four different after-school-activities, grocery shopping, a stop at the bank, picking up the clothing at the dry cleaners, returning neglected library books, and a mad rush to ship a package before the Fed-Ex office closes. Simultaneously, we are fielding phone calls from seven or eight important people and an additional dozen callers of lesser degrees of prestige. Text messages and emails cause our Blackberries to beep nonstop as we juggle the lifestyle of a busy 21st-century parent.
Does it have to be this way? Does everything have to be rushed? When do we get a chance to slow down?
Despite the vast array of time-saving devices throughout our modern homes (I can count five perched on the kitchen counter alone), we find our time scarcer than ever before. Curiously enough, the very wealthy among us- even the housewives who do not work- find themselves even more pressed for time than average people.
It seems that the more choices we encounter and the more options we view as available, the less free time we have available.
The very wealthy, who have housekeepers and gardeners at their beck and call, have far more choices than average people: Shall we travel to Italy on Monday or Tuesday? Should we schedule a stopover in New York City on the way to California? Shall the new tiles around the pool be aqua or turquoise?
We in the 21st-century have options that our great-grandparents could not have fathomed in their wildest dreams: We can travel around the world, learn a new language or study for a new career in the comfort of our homes, and update all 427 Facebook friends of our status as each new item is accomplished.
Paradoxically, the more options we have in our lives, the more frantic the pace of life becomes, because we feel a virtually addictive need to do more, to see more, to learn more.
None of us can see all the sites in a metropolitan city in the US if we lived to be 200 years old, yet all of us feel the desire to see many of those sites, and experience an array of new adventures.
The fact remains that we are surrounded by a myriad of choices that beckon towards us intellectually, physically, and emotionally.
How can we slow down the frantic pace of our lives within the society in which we live? Is it possible to stop and smell the roses every single day- not just during vacations?
The secret lies in the ability to make choices.
Stephen Covey, author of The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families, states this concept as follows:
“The key to being proactive is remembering that between stimulus and response there is a space. That space represents our choice— how we will choose to respond to any given situation, person, thought or event. Imagine a pause button between stimulus and response—a button you can engage to pause and think about what is the principle-based response to your given situation.”
Every single one of the hundreds of choices that present themselves to us on a daily basis includes that special “pause” button where we can choose our responses.
In the past, if a friend were to call me and ask me to accompany her to an entertaining charity event on Sunday evening, I would have looked at my calendar. Upon finding that Sunday evening was blank, I would have acquiesced, and attended the event together with her.
Since discovering this secret to slowing down and enjoying a relaxed pace of life, I have a radically different mode of responding to my friend’s invitation. My first step is not to check my calendar, but rather to check my goals. What are the primary pursuits that I am attempting to accomplish at this phase of my life? Perhaps I have a self-determined deadline to finish writing my book, and I have decided that social encounters this month will be minimized to phone conversations, rather than lengthy in-person rendezvous. That being the case, I will turn down the invitation because it is not in line with my current goals.
Of the thousands of choices we encounter each year, it is impossible to choose all of them. Saying yes to one activity automatically means saying no to another activity that is taking place simultaneously.
An ancient proverb that states, “You can’t dance at all the weddings.”
Having a multitude of choices is a blessing of our times, yet the blessing can turn into a curse for those that attempt to choose every option on the table. Eating every delicacy at the buffet is a sure recipe for a stomach ache.
Equally important as choosing what we want to do, the goals we yearn to accomplish, is to choose which ones we are willing to leave by the wayside.
The lesson is: If you chase two rabbits, both will escape.
Money, cars, jewels and clothing can always be acquired. On the other hand, once time has passed, it can never be recouped.
We all have limited time, energy, and ability to focus.
Time is a blessing; it’s its compilation is our life.
It was a sad day when I told my 10-year-old son that he could not join a 5-week soccer league. Yet, it was an essential step in maintaining my family’s sense of balance and purpose. (He was already enrolled in hockey lessons, a baseball league, and enrichment studies at the time!)
Sometimes we put tremendous pressure upon ourselves only because the choice is available.
How many times did I used to chop up a huge salad because the vegetables would go bad soon? How often did I rush to the library and miss tucking my children into bed because I wanted to avoid a $1.25 fee?
Now, I wonder: Why?
Why did I feel so pressed to make a massive salad on a day that I already had a headache, two imminent carpools, and a business meeting? Why didn’t I choose to freeze the almost-rotting vegetables for a soup on another day? Was saving one dollar and twenty-five cents at the library really worth the hassle of bundling up all my children and driving across town to the library, on four empty stomachs?
I’ve learned to ask myself an all-important question as I’ve slowed the pace of my life and learned to relax despite my busy schedule.
The question is: What would happen if I did not do this?
In the evenings, as I stare at parts of my home which are in disarray, I ask myself, “What would happen if I did not clean up the living room?” And the answer, obviously, is that the books and toys will wait for me until tomorrow.
On the other hand, as I stare at the grimy kitchen and ask myself the very same question, the answer jumps out at me: Cockroaches and ants will invade my territory if I do not clean up the kitchen quickly!
Therefore, most evenings, I clean only the kitchen. The children can help me clean the rest of the house tomorrow- nothing else is nearly as important as keeping roaches out of my home!
I use this concept when I am invited to events or notice a sale on items I intend to purchase. Asking myself, “What would happen if I did not do this?” has diametrically improved the level of harmony in my home and tranquility in my mind. No longer do I fall asleep under the weight of yet another unfinished To-Do list.
Not only have I chosen the goals I’d like to achieve, I have made peace with the idea of choosing not to accomplish certain things. Time is an irreplaceable resource; I cannot squander it because elephants are on sale at the local fair for a quarter.
When I ask myself the question, “What would happen if I did not do this?” most of the answers look similar to this list below:
“I won’t save seventy-five cents on orange juice.”
“I won’t know what Joe Klein thinks about the war in Afghanistan.”
Just because the sale on juice is taking place around the corner, or Time Magazine arrived in my mailbox, does not make it mandatory for me to utilize my time in these areas!
It comes as liberation to many busy parents, to know that time belongs to us alone, and we are the sole determiners of its use.
You can find many new ideas to create an abundance of time for the people and things you value most in Creating Hours: Time Management Tips & Tricks for Busy Parents
12 Time Saving Tips For Parents
The following article of time saving tips for parents was written by my friend Ellen C. Brown from CreatingHours.com. She has written an excellent guide on finding more time in our busy days and I highly recommend it for any busy mom. You can order your copy here: http://www.hillbillyhousewife.com/creatinghours
1. Trust yourself to make effective decisions: Clutter is symbolic of the inability to decide what ought to be trashed or where things belong. A consistently hurried pace of your life is symbolic of the inability to decide what can be overlooked or what can wait.
Reward: Less stuff impeding your steps, and more time to do the things you love.
2. Do all your reading with a pen and a pad of post-it notes, so that you never have to spend time thumbing through a magazine or book in order to find what you wanted. Keep a small square of post-its in your handbag, on your nightstand, in your magazine bin, and even in the bathroom!
Reward: You know exactly where that recipe, website, or product review is when you decide to check it out.
3. Declare gadget-free zones so that you can really enjoy your leisure time. (Isn’t that what voicemail was created for?!)
Reward: Family time is not spent dealing with clients, and business time is not spent chatting with friends and family. Create a space surrounded by things you love without any electronic communications devices. It can be as simple as a beanbag without a phone!
4. Go through your house, one room at a time, and get rid of anything that is not useful, beautiful, or joyful. Set the timer for 10 minutes per room. Do this quickly and put everything into boxes in the basement or other storage area. Give yourself a few months to decide if you want to trash, save, donate, or sell these items.
Reward: You’ll save time: Not having to wash, maintain, dust these things. These things won’t hinder your access to important things that you need in a hurry. (Imagine if the only things on your nightstand were your glasses and keys- nothing else! They’d never be lost or buried under useless stuff!)
5. LABEL all of your chargers with silver Sharpie markers, so you don’t wake up one morning with a dead cell phone as you’d plugged it into your son’s DS charger the prior evening, and it didn’t quite fit. (Based on my personal experience recently!)
Reward: A fully charged appliance when you expect it!
6. Each bedroom ought to have its own hamper. Laundry should be done one hamper at a time- avoid combing hampers in the washing machine.
Reward: This enables you to take a basket of clean clothes from the dryer and put it in the room in which it belongs and saves enormous time sorting and putting away the clean clothing. BONUS- if you dumped the clean laundry on the bed, the owner of the bed must deal with putting away the clothing if she wants to sleep in an empty bed that evening!
7. Why touch clothing twice- once to put it away in a drawer, and once to get it ready to be worn in the morning? Buy several hanging sweater organizers- and put away your clothing in groups- each shelf should contain pants, shirt, underwear, socks.
Reward: This way, when it’s time to get dressed, you grab one shelf instead of opening 5 drawers to find what you need. This tip is exceptionally helpful for children and people that think slowly in the morning, like myself!
8. Prepare dinner early in the day in a crock-pot. Or even get it ready the evening prior to a busy day; keep it in the refrigerator overnight and then place it on the heating element in the morning.
Reward: Quick preparation, no worries about burning dinner, stirring, mixing, etc. This is especially useful when you’ll be out of the house all day. Bonus- the house smells delicious when you walk inside after a long day!
9. Have lots of zip-lock bags handy. When you are unsure where something belongs (is that a charger for an appliance that we still own?) put it in a zip lock bag in the closet. If you decide you need it, you can find it easily during your search though the closet. If you keep seeing it in the closet, you’ll realize you don’t need it, and trash it.
Reward: No more clutter taking your space and time throughout the house. In the past, I used to have a pile in a corner of each room consisting of things that didn’t belong anywhere. Now, that’s history!
10. Prepare a master grocery list that corresponds to the aisles of your local supermarket. (Or ask an organized friend in your neighborhood to email hers to you! Or, put up a notice that you’re looking for this type of list on your grocery’s bulletin board- that is how I found mine!) Keep copies on the fridge, and circle the items you need for your next shopping expedition. Prepare menus for the week on the reverse side, so that everything you need to buy is on one sheet of paper.
Reward: No more last-minute trips to the grocery for things you forgot, and no need to sit and write out a shopping list each week!
11. Create a standard system for storing and remembering your passwords, so that you need not spend time requesting new passwords or digging through old emails or post-it notes each time you visit the site! My system looks something like this: The site’s first and last letter, my hometown and childhood phone number, the sites last and first letter. (Security experts advise changing passwords every 6 months and not using the same one for each site. In 6 months, instead of my hometown and phone number, I’ll use my college town and zip code, still using the site’s first and last letters.)
Reward: No more wasted time requesting and renewing passwords as you log into your favorite sites. This technique is especially useful when you switch computers!
12. Buy a timer on a chord to wear like a necklace when doing chores. You’ll hear the ding no matter where you are! Allow yourself 10 or 30 minutes to clean each room, and move on when you hear the ring- even if you’re not yet 100% done! This will encourage you to move faster, avoid getting lost in tiny details.
Reward: More focus means more is accomplished! That means more leisure time for you!
Find hundreds of more time-saving tips in the new book, Creating Hours: Time Management Tips and Tricks for Busy Parents!
How To Feed Your Kids The RDA of Fruits and Vegetables
My kids are huge fans of mac n cheese. Getting them to eat vegetables isn’t easy. They will eat broccoli if I mix it into their macaroni and cheese.
There are fruit/vegetable juices on the market. “Dynamo” sold at Trader Joe’s goes over well in our household.
Remember that the Food Pyramid recommends fruits OR vegetables. If your children won’t eat the green beans you are serving as a side dish – give them a sliced apple or an orange instead.
Butterscotch Sauce
This butterscotch sauce is great on ice cream!
Butterscotch sauce:
1 c. brown sugar
1/2 c. heavy cream
1/3 c. corn syrup
2 Tbs. butter
1 tsp. vinegar
1 tsp. vanilla
1/8 tsp. salt
In medium-size saucepan, heat all ingredients, except vanilla, to boiling, stirring frequently. Reduce heat and simmer 2-3 minutes; remove from heat and add vanilla.
This can be cooled and stored in the refrigerator up to one week.
Sand Box Cake
I’m looking for the recipe that is a lot like a wacky cake, but you mix it all in the pan you are going to cook it in. Thanks.
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Looking For Ideas To Reuse Large Glasses From Used Candles
I burn a lot of candles. I prefer to buy the large size (I think they’re more economical and I buy them on sale for 1/2 price at Bath & Body Shop). Once the candle burns down, what can I do with the leftover glass container? The medium size ones I use in the bathroom for Q-tips and cotton balls, and the little ones I reuse for leftover candle wax. But I’m stumped what to do with the large size. Does anyone have any suggestions?
College Loans And Parent’s Responsibility
Looking for anyone with college loan experience. Yesterday my daughter got her college loan papers telling her how much she got on the FAFSA etc. It also listed the different grants and loans she can take out for her first year at college and the breakdown. The last item was called Parent loan and it was for 18,000.00. They expect the parent to sign/cosign for the student loan. She’s not going to an online university. I went to a 2 year college to avoid student loans and want to start paying off bills and saving for retirement. I had no plans for signing any college loan with her. Does anyone out there have any prior experience on this subject? I am desperate!!!
Pantry Space In Odd Places
Just a thought for the reader who has little pantry storage. My grandpa built narrow shelves for canned goods on the wall going down to their cellar above and below the handrail. I’ve seen NYC apartment dwellers put up shelves over doorways or around the perimeter of a room for storage. Then there’s the old faithful underbed thing on wheels intended for shoes, that can be used as a “pantry”. A couple years ago I remember a website or article dedicated to unusual space use, perhaps a search online would pull something up. I believe the guy had drawings of his ideas. Narrow shelving might be a good use for free pallet wood.
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Grown Up Grilled Cheese
We all know how great tomato soup & grilled cheese go together. I like to make a little different grilled cheese sandwich for the grown ups. I use Pepper Jack cheese and cracked wheat sourdough bread(bought at Trader Joe’s), and cook in the traditional way in a frying pan with butter.
Homemade Onion Rings
Cut onions into rings. Dip in prepared pancake batter. Fry in a deep fryer until they float.
Inexpensive Pancake Syrup
I like to make this syrup because it has few ingredients, easy to make, and tastes great. It is thinner than commercial syrup but at least I can read the entire ingredient list and know what is in it.
You will need:
1 1/2 C. brown sugar
1 1/2 C. water
1/2 C. white sugar
3/4 C. light corn syrup
1 tsp. salt
1 tsp. vanilla
1 tsp. maple flavoring (optional)
Combine sugars, water, and corn syrup in a medium saucepan and bring to a boil over medium heat. Boil for approximately 7-9 minutes to thicken slightly.
Remove from heat and stir in salt, vanilla, and maple flavoring if using. Cool completely before pouring into bottle or jar. Does not need to be refrigerated.
*Note* I have never used the maple flavoring in this syrup and it still tastes “maple” enough for my family.
Frugal Living is Team Work
A couple of days ago my daughter’s school sent home their monthly newsletter. It always has some interesting facts and ideas in it and in this particular edition, it had a little article about team work. It included the T.E.A.M acronym. I have seen this before, but thought I’d share it with you today and talk a little bit about how frugal living is team work as well.
Let’s start with what T.E.A.M stands for…
T – Together
E – Everyone
A – Accomplishes
M – More
There are several teams you’ll be working with throughout your frugal live. Your first stop should always be your own family, but your core family (parents and their children) as well as your extended family. How so?
The Frugal Family
Your first “frugal team” as I mentioned will be your family. You don’t live alone and your spending decisions will directly affect your immediate family. Your spouse and kids will be a lot more cooperative as you are starting to make changes to become more frugal if they are involved as well.
Start by telling them what you are planning to do and also explaining why being more frugal is important right now. Then as you start to become accustomed to a frugal lifestyle, keep pointing out what you can do because you are frugal most of the year. This could mean a bigger house, a vacation once a year and even the peace of mind that having no consumer debt and an emergency fund gives you.
Don’t forget to involve your family actively as well. Ask for their input on things you could do without or have them find coupons, deals or just save up for anything extra they want. My family has always enjoyed the challenge of finding the best deal for just about anything.
Not only will your children be less likely to complain about your frugal lifestyle, you are also teaching them valuable life skills about financial responsibility and managing money and other resources wisely.
You may also be interested in this article I wrote a while back – Frugal Living Is A Family Affair.
Let’s move on to our next frugal team. This will be a network of friends who share your views and values.
A Local Network Of Frugal Friends
Having some friends and acquaintances who are frugal as well is beneficial on so many different levels. You can share ideas, tips and places where great deals can be found. I also trade toys and clothes with other frugal friends who have children who are older or younger than mine. You can trade books, go in on larger purchases (my dad has been sharing a lawn mower with a friend who is also a neighbor for years), or just share coupons etc. that the other families do not need.
Another big advantage of having a network of frugal friends is the support they can provide. Living frugally isn’t always easy and there are times where you just don’t feel like saving or finding the best deal. It’s good to have some friends you can talk to that share your values.
With that said, let’s move to the next team – the online frugal community.
A Frugal Online Community
Last but not least, don’t forget about frugal online communities. They are a wealth of information and participants there (both men and women) are always ready to help and be there for encouragement and support.
You will find both free and paid frugal communities online and both of them certainly have their own pros and cons. The biggest pro with a free community is that you have access to a whole bunch of like-minded folks. At the same time, the information you can in free forums isn’t always the most accurate and you will often be presented with many contradicting ideas. You also need to be aware that since signup is free, many people there aren’t very dedicated to living frugally. My best advice is to take all advice you receive in free online forums and communities with a grain of salt.
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Dill Pickles – made into sweet pickles
I’m looking for a recipe that takes sliced dill pickles, adds sugar and jalapanos . . . and comes up with a sweet/hot pickle. Can you help me?
Graduation Party Food Ideas
My only daughter is graduating in June. I am throwing her a big party at our house. We are living on 1 income right now and things are very tight. I have so much expense with everything I have to buy and rent for this event that I am looking for some good cost effective ideas for food. We are planning on having chicken and cabbage rolls and meat and cheese trays along with all of the other goodies, etc. Does anyone have any good food or party ideas that work well? I only have 2 months left. Any suggestions would be appreciated! Thanks.
Southern Potato Salad
this is a huge hit at any party. I have made it numerous times and i still get requests for it.
6-7 russett potatoes, peeled diced and cooked til not quite mushy.
6 boiled eggs, peeled and diced
1 small can olives, finely chopped
2-3 pickles finely chopped
1 package bacon, cooked and chopped… for this it is much easier to cut it before cooking.
1 cup mayonaisse
2-3 tblsp. mustard
1 tsp. paprika
salt, pepper to taste.
While getting everything perpared throw items in a large bowl.
Mix in the mayo and mustard and stir well til it looks yummy.
put in fridge to cool off.
Turning 2 Liters Of Lemonade Into 4 Liters
When I buy a 2 liter(more or less), I cut the first few cups I pour with water, it’s plenty sweet. Once about half is gone fromt he bottle, I just fill it back up with water. I’ve gotten about twice the amount that I paid for and the kids enjoy it just the same.
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Frugal Casseroles For Two
I am looking for frugal casseroles for just 2 people. any help appreciated
Microwave Biscuit Dessert
I’m looking for a biscuit recipe I had back in the 80′s in Wisconsin. It uses biscuits, brown sugar and butter. I remember you use a glass pie plate and put a small drinking glass in the center, so the finished caramel doesn’t get in there. You cook in the microwave but I don’t remember much else. I was 17 years old so I didn’t pay attention. Thank you in advance.
Sweet Gravy
My grandmother always made a sweet sauce to serve with plain pound cake. She called it LumptyFudd. I know it had butter, milk, vanilla & sugar. Does anyone have that recipe. I need measurements.




